January 16, 2024

Relentless Pursuit of More is a Lie

The world tells us that we need to do more, have more, and be more in order to be successful and happy.

I call bullshit.

Abandon this desire and focus on these other tips instead.

The Illusion of Perfection

We've been conditioned to think we need to be perfect - perfect careers, relationships, houses, clothes, awards... the list goes on.

No one can achieve these things. And the constant pressure to be perfect is overwhelming.

But here's the truth: perfection is an unattainable goal.

No matter how much we achieve or how much we accumulate, there will always be something more to strive for. Perfection is a moving target – the more we chase it, the further it seems to move. Instead, shift your focus to personal growth and continuous improvement.

Pursuit of More = Seeks external validation and comparison

Personal Growth = Aligns to core values and personal desires

The Antidote

  • Personal growth grounded in self-inquiry and understanding your core values
  • Embrace "progress, not perfection." Focus on incremental improvements
  • Experiences > Material possessions. Focus on creating memories
  • Cultivate gratitude and focus on joy & fulfillment in the present
  • Invest time + energy on relationships and connections
  • Improve your quality of life through self-care

Conclusion

The world will constantly demand that we do more, have more, and be more. Don't listen to it.

Focus on listening to your internal voice - the one that wants to grow, learn and be happier.

Commit to focusing on a deeper relationship with yourself, the people in your life, and the world you can impact around you.

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